Abstract: The rationality and abstraction trend of society has brought about regular and effective operation of society,and also caused the alienation and confrontation between society and individuals.This abnormal relationship has trapped individuals in the dilemma of modernity experience,which includes at least the fading of sense of belonging and the lack of meaning of life.The strengthening of community construction,rebuilding of life world,emphasizing communicational rationality and advocating of life politics will be of great help for relieving individuals’ modernity experience dilemma.

Key words: abstract society, modernity experience, dilemma, relief