Abstract: The core of Chinese culture,represented by Confucianism,is a concept of grace,which defines interpersonal relationship through the concept of grace-gratitude.Filial piety of family ethics and loyalty of social and political ethics areamong grace concept.On the one hand,it constructs a kind of human society,which slows down the violence,but also shows a power relationship in which the benefactor is dominant to the beneficiary and the beneficiary is dependent upon the benefactor.Chinese aesthetics has the idea of inter-subjectivity,advocating the identity between the subject and the world,including man and nature,and man and man.Therefore,Chinese aesthetics deconstructs the culture of grace by inter-subjectivity.This is embodied in the deconstruction of social relations by natural aesthetics,the deconstruction of ethical concepts by aesthetic awareness,the deconstruction of the relations of power by aesthetic sympathy and so on,which proves the aesthetic transcendence and freedom.

Key words: inter-subjectivity, grace culture, aesthetic, deconstruction