Abstract: Jiangnan poetic culture is the model of "the unity of Confucianism,Taoism and Buddhism ",the representative of Chinese poetic culture,and the climax of Chinese ancient culture,which has three distinct characteristics:aestheticism,feminism and transcendence.Novels about human relations are the core of Ming and Qing novels，the climax of Chinese ancient literature,the crystallization and literary description of JiangNan poetic culture,whose combination of elegance and popularity,aestheticism and promoting virtues far exceed Tang poems and Song ci-poems.

Key words: Jiangnan poetic culture, Ming and Qing novels about human relations, elegance and popularity, promoting virtues, aestheticism